Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Challenge: Don't Wait

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One smile.  One kind word.  One hug.

Sometimes that's all it takes to brighten a lousy day.

  • Don't wait for your loved ones to tell you something is wrong before you reach out to them...
  • Don't wait until you're afraid of losing someone to tell them that they changed your life back then...

Because sometimes you can change someone's life with a single act of kindness.

Friends - I challenge you to reach out to someone you know who has made a difference in your life and tell them You might make all the difference in their day, week, month, year or life. 

Smile.  Be kind.  Love always.


- That One Girl

Sunday, December 19, 2010

He's onto Me!

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Friends,

If you had a crush, would you want him to be onto you or oblivious of your presence?  If any of you have read any of my past entries, you would know that I've had a year-long (give or take) crush on my precious Strawberry Boy.  We work out in the same gym and work for the same company.  He and I have barely ever talked, if even looked at each other.  Of course, I sneak glances of admiration every now and then when he's not looking, too shy to ever actually talk to him. 

On Friday, every time I happened to look in his direction, to my utter embarrassment, he'd  grin.  Every time he grinned, I looked down or away.  Is he onto me, or was he just listening to something funny on his iPod???

Is it a good thing or a bad thing to be caught?

- That One Girl

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Booger Boy

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In case any of you didn't know by now, I tend to work out a bit.  Winter season is here, so I keep my workouts limited to indoor areas, i.e. the gym on week days and home on the weekends.

 Yesterday was a running day.  The Giant said he was running four miles, so I committed myself to three miles.  This was before I realized that I was going to get stuck on the treadmill next to some guy who's been kind of sick all week.

At first, I didn't notice anything odd or peculiar.  Usually I tend to space off my surroundings when I run.  After all, it's my me-time.  However, after about a mile, I noticed my treadmill neighbor kept covering his nose with his hand, making a puffing sound.  At first, I thought nothing of it.  But when he continued to do it, my mind ran off with itself - what was he doing?  Then I noticed him periodically wipe his hand on his shorts...

Suddenly, I felt sick to my stomach.  It dawned on me that he was blowing his nose in his hand!  Oh my dear goodness!  Oh heck no!!!

I told myself that I had another two miles to go.  I could do this.  After only one more mile, I could do it no more.  I had to stop.  I was thoroughly grossed out.

Initial Goal:  three miles in spite of tiredness
Result:  two miles and severe repulsion

I blame Booger Boy for my inability to complete my three miles.  Scapegoat?  Yes, but not really.  Today, I ran four miles - three for today and an extra for yesterday.

- That One Girl

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Why does junk food have to be so bad for you?

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Random conversation today between the Giant and me about junk food.  It will probably give me the giggles for the rest of my life.

Me:  I just took two of Kal's fun size Snickers bars, and now I have the giggles. 

The Giant:  eat like that and you get the jiggles...well, maybe not... but I know I do just by thinking about junk food.  

Me:  oh trust me, the jiggles are exacerbated by the giggles. not cool. not cool at all. 

The Giant:  you know, you think about it and its really not fair. Why does ice cream and candy have to be this way... I mean, to some its a staple...like me, ice cream...must have....so why does it have to be soo bad for you.  

Me:  bc it's ALL fat. PURELY fat. 

The Giant:  but why  
Me:  but if you want to look on the bright side of things, that kind of stuff satiates that part of your brain so you're happier when you have it grin
food for the soul. uh-huh. amen. 

The Giant:  then my soul is fat

At least he's happy. :)  For those of you who are wondering who the Giant is, he's one of my good buddies at work.  Yes, he is a giant.  He towers over most of the people in my department.


- That One Girl

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Long time, no blog!

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Friends, I have been on hiatus for a little while.  Okay, maybe a bit longer than a little while.  I guess a part of me thinks that no one is paying attention to any of my nonsense.  That being said, I've decided to try to start blogging again. 

Lately it feels like many of my friends have left or are leaving the great state of Iowa.  Honestly, the busier I get, the harder of a time I have trying to keep in touch with everyone, which is why I hope to keep my blog updated.

Of course, you probably won't get the scoop on every detail of my entirely exciting life (yes, you've caught me; my sarcasm shocks even me sometimes), but at least you'll get tidbits of what I'm up to or thinking about here and there.

On a random note:  daylight savings came by a 1.5 weeks ago, and my body is still not used to it.  This little chicky is turning in.  Good night, Folks.  That's all she wrote.

- That One Girl

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

My Strawberry Boy

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For several, several months now, I have had a crush on this guy that works out at my gym.  It's taken me probably almost a year to even muster the courage to look him in the eye.  I haven't any idea why I admire him so, but I do...from a distance.

Yesterday, I hopped on the treadmill next to his.  I finished running before he did, and when I climbed off the treadmill, I noticed an iPod and earphones laying on the ground next to my feet.  I looked around at all the people on the treadmills.  Then I walked off to get a disinfectant wipe (to clean my machine), and when I came back, I stared at the iPod again, completely puzzled.  I looked up and around, and it dawned on me that Strawberry Boy didn't have his usual earphones in his ears.

I picked up the iPod and looked up at him.  He then turned around when I asked, "Is this yours?"  He nodded and said yes. 

When I handed his iPod to him, he smiled and said, "Thank you very much." 

And just like that, my mind went completely blank.  Yep, a simple "you're welcome" would have sufficed, but even my manners escaped with my every fleeting thought.  I think I managed to utter an "uh-huh" before I turned around to let him finish his running.  Completely embarrassed, I'd never been so thankful that I don't have the capability to blush.. otherwise I would be as red as my Strawberry Boy.

The very first four words he's ever spoken to me... ah, this is a moment in history.  My safe crush spoke to me, and my mind went blank.  This is the first time any guy has ever had that effect on me.  It's almost appalling... the man makes me stupid, and he doesn't even have to try.  (Yes, I do mean stupid.  My brain doesn't work around him.)

- That One Girl

Friday, April 30, 2010

Blood Pressure

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Last night I went to an exhibit called RACE, and it had a blood pressure machine there for people to try.  Research shows that some racial groups tend to have higher blood pressures.  For kicks and giggles, I decided to give it a try.  

Take one:  the machine couldn't find my blood pressure.
Take two:  oh it found me, and it found me with hypertension. 141/87

For kicks and giggles, I sure felt like I was kicked, and the machine just giggled.
Conclusion of the night - the machine must have been broken...

- That One Girl

Thursday, April 29, 2010

He Liked It!

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I gave my work grandpa his present this morning and almost started to cry.  ALMOST.  His eyes got all red when he read the card I gave him, and then my eyes teared up.  Of course I willed those tears away :)

Anyway, I got him a travel wallet.  It will be a convenient way for him to keep his travel documents together, i.e. passport, boarding passes, itinerary, I.D., cards, etc.



He loved it. :)

-That One Girl

P.s. I also bought myself a gift to make myself feel better too. 

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Gift Ideas Needed, Please!

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My work grandpa is officially retiring at the end of this week.  He used to sit in the cubicle right next to mine.  Eventually the department decided that he needed to be more accessible across the department, so they moved him away from me.  Now he'll be moving away entirely.  I'm so happy for him, but yes, I will miss him a ton.

I've only gotten the chance to meet each of my grandpas once in my life.  Since I don't have one here in the states to claim as my own, sometimes I meet people who I look up to fondly as a grandfather.  His nickname for me is "Jaws", and I can't tell you how many times he's made me laugh so hard until I cried (at work).

Anyway, I'd like to get him a retirement gift, maybe even something to remember me by.  It isn't about me though.  What should I get him to wish him well on his next journey in life?

He and his wife plan to do missionary work for the next several years.  I'm so happy for them.  What an incredible way to live.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Why are you single?

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Yes, once again I was asked the question, "Why are you single?"

How does one even begin to answer that?  Usually that question is met with silence, or a shrug of the shoulders and an I-don't-know. 

After being drilled by two people simultaneously for tens of minutes, I finally decided to be creative.  I grinned at them and said, "Maybe I'm bi-polar." 


I'm 27 years old and have been forever single.  If I knew the answer, don't you think I'd be off the market already?

- That One Girl

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Beauty...do you see it?

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Beauty can be found everywhere and anywhere - even in the simplest of places. It is just a matter of whether one can see it or not - it really is in the eye of the beholder.

I happened to be climbing around in a tree the other day when I saw this.  It took my breath away.


I'm feeling a little nostalgic tonight.  Good night, World.

- That One Girl

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

I Asked a Boy Out!

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There really is a first time for everything. For the first time in my life, I asked a boy out! He's going to go to a wedding with me towards the end of May.

That's the news for the day. I have a date!

Oh....by the way, he's gay. But still, I asked. :)

- That One Girl

Monday, April 12, 2010

Should I be mad?

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After I posted my last blog entry, the boy called me late that night to apologize profusely. We talked for awhile and discussed getting together on Sunday. We decided to meet halfway. We talked briefly again on Friday, and he said he'd call me on Saturday to discuss details. He never called.

Sunday morning I sent him a text message to confirm if we were still getting together. He didn't respond. A couple hours later I called, and still nothing. I never did hear from him.

Naturally I was disappointed at first. As the day wore on, my family surprised me with a visit, and I went for a jog around my favorite lake, stopping at Target on the way back to pick up some reading materials. One of my girl friends called and we caught up for a couple hours. It was an amazing day in the end, and that's all I feel that I could possibly want or ask for - an amazing day.

Is it strange that I'm not mad? All of my friends are so mad at him for me. Maybe he had a good reason, maybe he didn't. Either way, things will work out for the best. That's what I believe.

Good night and much love,

That One Girl

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Is it destiny?

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One of my friends and I were talking today about this boy I like. He was supposed to come visit me this Friday, but ended up canceling because he wouldn't get back from Chicago until late tomorrow night. Unfortunately he isn't available this weekend.

Anyway, the first weekend he thought about coming to visit, I had gone home to visit my parents. He planned to come the following weekend, but then he realized it was Easter weekend. He had family in town, and I was headed to Chicago with my parents to visit family, so we had to reschedule for this weekend. This weekend is now out. I'm unavailable next weekend. Free the next, and unavailable the following.

After I explained to my girl friend about my busy weekends, she asked me, "So when are you going to make time for love?"

"I know, right! Maybe that's why I'm still single!" I said. It had never occurred to me before that I really don't make time for that part of my life.

Then she answered, "Maybe that's why you two are destined to be together."

Interesting. I never thought of it that way. The guy and I do seem similarly busy. He seems to always be on the go, and I know I'm always on the go. For that reason, I was starting to think the contrary.

Hmmm... one must wonder what will happen next.

- That One Girl

Monday, April 5, 2010

"No one understands..."

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We've probably all been there at some point in our life, where we feel like no one could possibly understand what's going on in our lives. In fact, a couple of my friends recently confided in me about things going on in their lives.

It's funny - a lot of people think that no one could possibly understand what they're going through. Hence, they keep everything to themselves and sometimes get buried in those emotions and feelings... Would it not stand to reason that if everyone feels like no one could understand, there is someone out there who could understand? But since no one is talking about it, we end up wandering about feeling like we're the only people in those situations? That could quite possibly be the reason why some people do feel lonely.

There are things that I feel that no one could understand, but I know in my heart that while there are a lot of people who cannot relate, there are those who can. Admittedly, sometimes it feels great to vent to someone who will listen with an open heart, whether he/she can or can't understand.

Moral: Give people a chance to understand if you want to be understood. (On the flip side, if you know they have no compassion or are too daft to understand...)

-That One Girl

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Doctors and Prostitutes

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What do doctors and prostitutes have in common?

They both make a lot of money... and some spend it on each other?

Maybe you're thinking, "Yeah, right. Like a doctor would waste his money on a prostitute!" I don't blame you for thinking that. I would never have believed it either...

UNTIL my best friend called and told me that a doctor at her hospital was arrested for prostitution. Yes, that's right. The quack was arrested right in front of her gawking eyes and gaping jaw.

One has to wonder:
- If you're a doctor, why pay someone to do the deed with you? You're a doctor, for crying out loud. If infidelity is what you're into, why not just go to the bar and pick up some random woman for free instead of pay for it? There's plenty of (indecent) women out there who would be willing to do you just because you're a doctor.
- If you're a doctor, shouldn't you know all the statistics and facts about STDs? You're going to pay for someone who makes a living off of sleeping with numerous men?
- Why would you risk your reputation like that? If you're going to cheat, why go the illegal route?
- How much did he pay...

Shudder.

- That One Girl

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Thief with a Conscience?

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Many of us are inclined to believe that bandits, thieves, and robbers tend to be rotten scoundrels with little regard for others, i.e. people without a conscience. After all how can you possibly steal from another if you had a conscience?

My friend, Noelle, called me the other day with a story:

Noelle was at Salvation Army on a Saturday afternoon when she heard a commotion toward the front of the store. From the back of the store, she heard people yelling. Not wanting to get caught up in the drama, she browsed the shelves and listened.

“He hit her! He hit her!” Noelle paid no heed. Sounded like domestic violence, but it was none of her business. This kind of stuff happens all over the world all the time, and being a nurse, she knew better than to get involved. However, the commotion wasn’t getting any better, so she finally went to the front of the store to see what the ruckus was all about.

In the parking lot lay a woman on the ground. A crowd had gathered, and a man stood awkwardly by with a blanket and pillow for the injured woman. Noelle finally decided to get involved and helped the lady on the pavement until the medics arrived.

When Noelle arrived at work on Monday, she found out exactly what happened during her eventful trip to Salvation Army.

A man had walked out of the store with a couple items for which he had not paid. Having seen him walk out without paying, the sales lady went after him to demand that he pay for the items. A game of chicken then ensued - apparently she stood in front of his truck to prevent him from driving away. Much to his surprise, she didn’t move as he drove right into her and knocked her onto the ground.

The man then went into the store to grab a blanket and pillow for the lady whom he had just run over. Once Noelle arrived at the scene and the lady, whom he’d just injured, was in good hands, he got in his truck and drove away.

Maybe it’s just me, but I guess I would have thought that a stealer wouldn’t think twice about sticking around to help the person they’ve just run over. Instead I would assume that the person would commit a hit-and-run and try to leave the scene before getting arrested for stealing.

So there you have it, some thieves have consciences! (…or maybe it’s just the thieves who steal $3 worth of goods. Which raises another question – if you were the sales clerk in this situation, would you really have risked your life over $3?)

- That One Girl

Sunday, March 14, 2010

That One Girl with That One Muse

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What is a muse?  In theory, a muse is one that gives us inspiration.  If that is true, we all have our own muses.  Even the most complacent person feels inspired at times (whether he/she admits it is another story).


Me - I'm blessed.  My muse goes with me everywhere - when I wake up in the morning and while I dream at night.  My muse finds inspiration in simple things and amusement in silly things.

Welcome to my world - these are the stories I don't necessarily share with everyone because sometimes they are oo randrom to throw into just any conversation.  These are the stories that amuse, inspire, or bewilder me.

- That One Girl with That One Muse
 

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